Saturday, October 30, 2010
You Aren't Going to Believe This One
I know my friends are picking up their teeth from the floor 'bout now!
It was a movie with a very interesting concept. When you die, you will meet 5 people who influenced your life the most. They are there to teach you something about yourself or your life.
The good thing about this movie is that it wasn't the standard answers you get when you ask the question, "What person living or dead would you want to meet?" Jesus Christ. I know there are some really interesting people who have lived, and I would think that if not for severe religious upbringing and the need to prove to oneself that Jesus really did exist, most people would choose someone vastly more interesting or important. Like the person who invented fire or indoor plumbing. Or Jonas Salk who invented the polio vaccine. Or Socrates. Or Elias Howe. Or the guy who stood beside my grandfather when he was 15 years old and enlisting in the US Marines to fight in WWI.
Anyway, back to the movie. I really encourage you to get that movie. If you want to get it then don't read the 5 people he sees, but here is a brief description of those he meets.
Th first person was the Blue Man from the local Freak Show at the Carnival. He taught him that people are people, they may look different but they still are human beings. The second was his Captain from the war who taught him that the ultimate love for another human is the ability to sacrifice something for them. His Capt was killed when he stepped on a land mine allowing the others to escape and live.
The third person was the woman who owned the Carnival where his father worked. His father beat him, his sister and his mother and was a drunk. He hated his father. He had thought his father died of complication of a drunken spree, but really his father died of pneumonia after saving a guy he went out to kill because he had made advances on his wife. He needed to forgive his father.
The fourth person was his wife who died of a brain tumor and told him that she knew he loved her but while she was alive and after and their lives had been wonderful for that.
And the fifth was the little girl in Japan who was in the hut the hut in Japan he had torched during the war. She forgave him.
It was a wonderful movie. And I can't stop thinking about the meaning it was meant to convey. That you impact other lives, and they impact yours. And you may not even realize it. It does matter, so do the right thing.
glen
Friday, October 29, 2010
Desparately Seeking Quilting Time
I had worked feverishly on CAAWS stuff, mom stuff, Frank's family stuff and life stuff to get ready for the cruise. The whole time I was thinking when I got back from the cruise there would be time aplenty. Not so.
I did manage to get my Virtual Bee blocks done for the November Girl. She wanted lucious red with slashes of color. So I complied with her request and fell in love. I wanted a quilt like this one too! But then I want them all..........
Monday, October 25, 2010
Thank you Dan.
It is exactly why I took care of my Alzheimer Aunt for 10 years and why I am here with my mom. Aunt Edith still knew me, although not too many other people share that recognition. I liken her to Chloe the Smelly Basset, not because she smells (grin) but because there was not a day that went bChloey that I did not laugh at them both. Funny gals, they are.
My mom is different. She is just confused. I actually had a better relationship with my Aunt than I did my mom in all my growing up years and then adulthood. My mother gave herself over to whatever man she was with, and the fact that it was my father made no difference in how they treated her or how she treated me. She was one of the Happy Homemakers of the Fifties with their Little Purple Pills. But she was my mother, so the obligation is there, my brother is not.This is what my friend sent me:
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'
True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.'
Design Wall Monday 10-25-10
Saturday, October 23, 2010
I think I will go eat all the sugar cubes I can find......
Friday, October 15, 2010
In the Navy, In the Navy now!
Bon Voyage!
glen: Life is short, sew hard!
Monday, October 11, 2010
design wall Monday 10-11-10
I am totally NOT a football fan, but we fell into the clutches of the local color reporter yesterday on our bike ride. So after we had ridden about10 miles in 90 degree temps she takes pictures of us and plasters them all over TV with an interview about the LSU FLorida football game. All I did was nod! I was scared to say anything worrying I would look like an idiot knowing nothing about football! Geez! Check out my last post.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
TV Interviews on a bike ride
She grew interested in the bikes and we will probably dominate the feature as they took video of us getting on the bikes, riding up and down the street, the purple bikes Amber and I have and a rousing shout of "We're Number Once!)
The ride debuted three new bikes. Frank, Amber and I all have new wheels! Dan negotiated with the bike guy at Capitol Cyclery and we got great deals with a lot of extra gear. Today our ride took us 13 miles from the State Capitol to the LSU Stadium to Voodoo BBQ and back through the concert at the Shaw Center downtown.
You know it is Louisiana when you see beads in the trees!
Here is Amber on her new bike.
Planetarium downtown
Dancing Waters at the Centroplex
. Can you see the planets???
Then on to the Mississippi River Levee and a great view of the bridge and some of the LSU cows.
This is us trying to decide where to eat. Voodoo BBQ wins.
This is Frank trying to look like he is just having a causal discussion while the TV cameras roll!
And here is the Cajun Music Fest we rode through in Downtown.
Friday, October 8, 2010
Auction Wins
Last year I won big. I mean BIG! Like over 50% of the baskets and over $200! Jessie won the other half of the baskets but she was supporting a Quilting Husband as well. Frank won’t pick up a needle or rotary cutter. So it looked way worse for me.
I resolved not to win as much this year so my take was a bit smaller. But I did get a few interesting things.
At 2 of my 3 guilds we have a birthday table. During your birthday month you bring in a small item. They sell raffle tickets for 25 Cents each and I usually purchase $2 worth each month. So I never ever ever win anything!
The Remember Me Guild Auction will be when I am on the cruise! And I was so hoping to be able to go to that one.
glen: I am still reveling in my Stash Manicure glow. It
PS: Don't you love the dishwashing detergent in that picture?
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
I am a celebrity now! So where is Jimmy?
But alas, no one noticed me. Until one day when Madame Samm put out a frantic post saying she was short some contributors and asked if anyone would like to sign up to be one.
Well now, that was right up my alley! So after making some final arrangements I debut tomorrow!
Check out my first guest contribution at Stash Manicure! Oh, this is so exciting. You all HAVE to read me where, but now hundreds.....maybe thousands.......will HAVE to read me.
And surely Jimmy Smits will notice me now that I am a celebrity.....right? (Oh he is so fine!)
Check out http://stashmanicure.blogspot.com/ to see the real deal!
glen: excited and all over that guy.............
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Got a little DVD in the mail!
And then was wasting a little time cooking dinner. These guys are recycled from last night’s fabulous Sweet Italian Sausage and Onions and Peppers dinner. I had three left over that have been cooking in my famous Italian Red Gravy.
Growing up in New Orleans we had Red Gravy and Brown Gravy. T
Can you smell them???????? MMMMMMMMMMM…………..
glen
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Bike Riding instead of quilting
Dan, Amber, Carrie, Valerie, Frank and I met at the Louisiana State Capitol Building for a fabulous bike ride though downtown. The sky offered a cloudless 63 degrees, perfect biking weather. No one
was hurt in the making of these pictures, although some were shaken up a bit.
The ride started
at the State Capitol Building, which really is a pretty building.
Then we rode into the Downtown area past the Old State Capitol Building. Dan told us that the building burned down in 1863 and was rebuilt to house governmental affairs. Currently it is where you go when you get jury duty, which is where both Dan I and were in the last month.
Then we rode on the Mississippi River levee a bit. Carrie took a bad tumble from her bike but like a good trip historian I took pictures before I had to ask her if she was ok. She was, just lost a good bit of skin to the cement roadway.
She opted to head back to the truck and home to take care of her wounds.
We rode past the Capitol Lakes after we made sure she was safely off.
Then we rode to the Capitol Lakes and saw a lot of wildlife. Nutria, herons, lots of ducks and some lovers who were trying to hide from someone (not sure they were supposed to be together, you know.)
And we ended up eating at Coyote Blues stuffing ourselves with nachos, tamales, tacos and tea
!
